Its not about you

In David Brook's article on "It Not About You" he talks in the article about someone finding themselves and losing themselves, and I'm going to give you a difference between them because there is a difference between the two. From the text and my thought i think finding yourself means to find out who you are as a person by personality and other traits. Its like a mission of soul searching to dig deep into yourself and actually know who you are as a person and your purpose of being here. Now losing yourself to me means that yo already knew who you was but you are being someone you know you are not which is causing you to change and forget who you at first (losing yourself), For example you could be the kindest and sweetest person but you can hang with wrong crowd which cause you to change and forget that you was that sweet person every thought you was that is what losing yourself means to me. In conclusion I have told you the difference between losing yourself and finding yourself according to David Brook's New York Times on "Its Not About You"